• Issues,  Work Life Balance

    Bend Don’t Break: Yoga

    There are obviously cycles during school and work when things are very busy.  I remember that in my last semester of law school I didn’t have a free Saturday until the end of March.  That meant I was going full steam for 6 days a week and then having to do all my readings on Sunday.  It was intense and stressful, which lead to stress-eating.  But really, I was stress-eating from the moment orientation started.  During law school, I gained probably around 40 pounds.  It was not good; not just for my self-esteem, but for my actual health.  Diabetes and heart disease run in my family–like in many Latino families,…

  • Law School,  Work Life Balance

    Chocolate for Work: Eyeshadow Options

    I mentioned before that I really love makeup and I really love colorful makeup, especially a bright eye.  When I was younger I would ignore the “don’t be matchy-matchy” rule and match my shadow to my outfit and I loved it!  But, obviously, now that I’m older and working as an attorney bright blue shadow isn’t going to work while I’m talking to judges.  Sad.  But! that doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun with a neutral eye.  So, today we’re comparing two palettes by Too Faced that are great options for work: Too Faced’s Chocolate Bar and their second edition, Semi-Sweet, offers a great variety of neutral eyes and mixes enough…

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    A Day On: Reflections after Selma

    Where I went to college (and probably many other universities), we celebrated MLK Jr. Day by having a series of workshops and panel discussions about race and social justice in America.   Through these events, I learned how progress and social justice only occurs when we fight for it. Now, as an adult that no longer needs college credit, I find it challenging sometimes to find events in which to to participate.  I know that most of us would rather just take the day off, rather than making it a “day on,” because it is so easy to see those past struggles as so far removed from our daily life…

  • Issues,  Work Life Balance

    Makeup and Agency

    Today’s post is a long road to a quick product recommendation, but before I get to that I really want to talk about our agency and control when it comes to wearing makeup (bear with me, it’s worth it!). First, do you use makeup? I love makeup–like, it’s a hoarding problem. When I first started using makeup, I was young and did it just because it’s what I thought that girls did. As I grew older, I became attached to the routine and thrill of new products. But I felt guilty because I felt that by using makeup I was perpetuating the idea that wearing makeup is something women “must”…

  • Issues,  Work Life Balance

    Connecting a Cultural Divide, a Book Review

    I recently finished reading Cup of Water Under my Bed (CWUB) and I highly recommend it!  CWUB is a memoir by Daisy Hernandez, a Latina with a Cuban father and Colombian mother.  A New Yorker who became a journalist for the New York Times before moving on to write progressive pieces with a focus on social justice. I became interested in reading CWUB just by the title alone.  I grew up with Mexican culture/traditions, so when I heard, “cup of water under a bed,” I didn’t think of Santeria (which is the context of the title), but rather remembered my mom would cure me from Ojo and place a cup of water…

  • Issues,  Legal Practice,  Work Life Balance

    Latinas Are Leaning In, A Book Review

    Two summers ago, I brought the book Lean In with me on vacation to St. Martin and promptly threw it back in my travel bag because this is just not beach-reading material!  A few months later, I was having lunch with one of the few Latina lawyers I know and she highly recommended the book.  I started reading it and couldn’t stop.  It was so informative and compelling, not just because the stories and statistics provided illuminated problems women face in the professional workforce; or because the advice seemed practical and useful; but because it was a window into a powerful world that we are trying to join. First, from a…